Kangangexesha elide, ngokuqinisekileyo lide kakhulu, bekucingwa ukuba ‘ngesandla esomeleleyo’ iingxaki ezinokuvela ngokuhlala nezilwanyana zinokulungiswa. Kwaye nangona oko kuyimpazamo enkulu ngokwayo, kukho enye into embi kakhulu kum: ukukholelwa ukuba baya kuziqonda ezo zohlwayo kwaye baphinde bacinge.
Ke ngoko, xa sizibuza indlela yokufundisa ikati yam, kufuneka sicace kakhulu ngale nto: bafunda ngokunxulumana, into efana ngayo nabantu. Ke ngoko, xa umfundisa, kubalulekile ukumhlonela njengohlobo (UFelis catus) kwaye njengomntu ozimeleyo.
makabe yikati
Ikati yinyamakazi, kodwa abantu bahlala besenza impazamo yokuyenza ibe ngabantu. Akangomntu, nathi asizokati. Ukuba sifuna ukuba onwabe, kodwa onwabe ngokwenene, kufuneka simvumele enze izinto ezifana nokukrwempa, ukutsiba, ukubaleka kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo meow. Lumka, anditsho ukuba akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubeke imida, kuba ngokucacileyo akufuneki umvumele ukuba asikrwele, umzekelo, kodwa kufuneka sihloniphe ubume bakhe.
Guqula isikhalo sibe 'hayi' elula
Ikati funda ngokwenza unxulumano; oko kukuthi, ukuba uyakuluma, uthi 'HAYI' (ndinyanzelisa, ngaphandle kokukhwaza) kwaye uyeke ukudlala ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuba le meko iphinda iphindwe izihlandlo eziliqela kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, ekugqibeleni uya kudibanisa ukuluma kunye nokuphela umdlalo, ngoko ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nokudlala uya kwazi ukuba uya kufuneka ayeke ukukuluma. Kwaye oku kunye nayo yonke into.
Kukho amaxesha, ngakumbi xa iyinjana, enokuthi ibe nemvukelo kwaye ityhale. Kwezi meko, ekuphela kwento ekufuneka ubenayo kuku-ngaphezulu-umonde.
Mnike ezinye iindlela
Enye yeentandabuzo ezivame ukuvela xa uhlala nekati yindlela yokuthintela ukukrazula i-sofa, okanye ukunyuka kwiitafile, umzekelo. Ewe, impendulo yam yile ilandelayo: mnike into anokuyikrwempa okanye akhwele kuyo. Uziva ekhuselekile ngakumbi kwiindawo eziphakamileyo kunasemhlabeni. Ke ngoko, unganqikazi ukuthenga okanye ukwenza iposti yokukrwela, kunye/okanye wenze igumbi lokudlala elinamashalofu kwiindawo eziphakamileyo kunye namathoyizi. Usenokuthenga namaqweqwe efenitshala echasene nomkrwelo.
Ukukrwela nokutsiba zizinto ezenziwa ziikati, kwaye ngokwenene zonke iimazi. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlala nomnye, okanye nabaliqela, kulunge ngakumbi ukuqhelanisa ikhaya lakho kubo kunokuzama ukuziqhelanisa neemfuno zakho..
Kuphephe ukuxinezeleka ekhaya
Ikati yakho isilwanyana esibuthathaka kakhulu, ngengqiqo yokuba xa intsapho yakhe ihamba ngexesha elibi, ngokukhawuleza uyayiqaphela. Ukuba kukho uxinezeleko, kuqhelekile ukuba aqalise ukwenza izinto ezifana nokuluma, ukukrwela, okanye ukulwa. nenye ikati xa engazange ayenze ngaphambili xa kukho iikati ezininzi ekhaya.
Ngesi sizathu, eli cebiso lingaphezulu kuwe kunobudlelwane onayo nekati yakho: nanini na kunokwenzeka, shiya uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, iingcinga ezingalunganga ... ngaphandle kwendlu. Thatha ukuphefumla kaninzi ukuba kuyimfuneko ngaphambi kokungena, camngca, mamela umculo weklasikhi, phuma uyokudlala imidlalo, ... kwaye wonwabele ixesha elizolileyo nekati.
gcinga ezingqondweni
Lusapho. Ilungu elinye ngaphezulu. Ukumfundisa ukuba abe yikati eyonwabileyo kubalulekile ukunikela ingqalelo, ukuba amaxesha amaninzi abelane naye (ngaphandle kokumoyisa), nokuba anikwe eyona nkathalo ibalaseleyo.
Uthando, inkampani, umonde, intlonipho nokuqonda. Akukho nanye kuloo nto ifanele ukuba ilahleke.